Mildred Mae Schaefer Stupka
March 3, 1930 - January 26, 2010
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GARNER - Mildred "Millie" Schaefer, 79, of Garner died Tuesday (January 26, 2010) at the Concord Care Center in Garner.

Funeral services will be held 10:30 A.M., Saturday at St. Boniface Catholic Church in Garner with Fr. Brian Dellaert officiating. Burial will be in St. Boniface Cemetery.

Visitation will be held from 4 to 7 P.M., Friday at the Cataldo Funeral Chapel in Garner with a rosary at 4 P.M., a VFW Auxiliary service at 6:45 P.M. followed by a time of sharing. Visitation will continue one hour prior to services at the church.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made in her name to Catholic Charities, American Lung Association or The Salvation Army.

Mildred Mae Schaefer, the daughter of Martin and Anna (Hrubes) Stupka, was born March 6, 1930 on a farm north of Garner. Millie graduated from Hayfield High School in 1947. After high school, she worked as a bookkeeper at Reuben's Shoe Store in Forest City. On November 25, 1948 she was married to Calvin "Joe" Schaefer at St. James rectory in Forest City. Joe was in construction work and they traveled to different construction places in the Midwest. In 1954, they returned to Garner where they raised their family. Millie worked in a variety of jobs including the nursing home, Dr. Fuller's medical office, secretary at Garner-Hayfield High School and twenty years as part-time secretary at North Iowa Printing Company. She enjoyed spending time with her family and friends, church activities, card playing and, in her earlier years, camping.

She was a member of St. Boniface Catholic Church, Rosary Society and the Garner VFW Auxiliary.

Millie is survived by her six children, Sandra (LtGen Dennis) Hejlik of Camp Lejeune, NC, Linda (Gary) Lemke of Billings, MT, Janelle Luppen of Billings, MT, Joanne Case of Eden, NC, Joe Schaefer of Seattle, WA and Greg Schaefer of Ames; eight grandchildren, Jason (Kamber) Hejlik and their three children, Kayla, Kassidy and Kenzie, Jill (LCDR Mike) Brady and their son, Michael, Jamison (Linda) Lemke, Ben Lemke, Michael Schaefer, Chris Schaefer, Jenny Schaefer and Ryan Schaefer; a sister, Anna Tlach of Garner; a brother, Clarence (Marlene) Stupka of Ankeny; sisters-in-law, Rose Trca, Iris Rayhons and Daisy (Jesse) Schwichtenberg; and many nieces and nephews.

She was preceded in death by her husband, Joe, Dec. 28, 1990; her parents; sisters, Agnes Formanek and Dorothy Bosch; and brothers, Lewis, Ray and Harold Stupka.
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Services

Visitation Information

Rosary at 4 PM & Sharing at 7 PM

Map & Driving Directions

Date & Time

Fri, January 29, 2010
4:00 PM - 7:00 PM


Location

Cataldo Funeral Chapel
160 E. 4th St.
Garner, IA 50438


Service Information

Map & Driving Directions

Date & Time

Sat, January 30, 2010
10:30 AM - 11:30 AM


Location

St. Boniface Catholic Church
660 Bush Ave.
Garner, IA 50438


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Judge Family
Feb 3, 2010

Sandy, Denny, and all ... We are so sorry for your loss. Your Mom is at peace now and has joined Our Lord in Heaven. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Kathy and Dennis

Friend of the Family
Feb 1, 2010

Sandy & General, Another Angel gone to a better place. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, the Schaefer family and your Mom. Steve Davis

Betty Wright
Jan 31, 2010

May God forever be with her.

Friend of Family
Jan 31, 2010

Sandy & Denny, Our thoughts and prayers are with you both and the whole Schaefer family. Susie and Walt Davis

Joe & Ellyn Dunford ( friends of Sandy & Denny)
Jan 30, 2010

Our sympathy to all the Schaefer family as you say goodbye to Millie. She leaves a wonderful gift to us all in her children and grandchildren. She must have been a great lady. Joe and Ellyn

Laura Malek friend
Jan 30, 2010

Millie was a dear sweet women and we will all miss her in Garner. Millie was fun to be around and just a joy to us all. I am glad she was a part of our lives. I am out of town so I could not be there.God be with you all.... more

Jan 30, 2010
Millie was a dear sweet women and we will all miss her in Garner. Millie was fun to be around and just a joy to us all. I am glad she was a part of our lives. I am out of town so I could not be there.God be with you all. Laura Malek

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